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People notice and comment that I'm a happy lawyer often enough that I've started to think seriously about why. I always take it as a compliment. I also find it a little odd (and sad) that it registers as something worth mentioning. We have apparently set the bar very low for ourselves as a profession.

It's not that my job is easy or that I never have hard days. My job is consistently challenging, and I have plenty of bad days. Yet, across multiple in-house roles, I've been happy.   

Somewhere along the way, I figured out something important: the gap between lawyers who love their careers and lawyers who don't has at least as much to do with how those lawyers think about their circumstances as it does with their circumstances themselves.  

We all want work that matters, income that creates options, and a life we love. Most of us focus hard on the first two. The third one—actually living a life you love—turns out to require some intentional work, including on the mental side. 

Here are 7 intentional steps you can take, if you want to be a happy (or happier!) lawyer.

If your job is not helping you build the life that you want, it is both your responsibility and within your power to make a change. So if your job is making your life stink, find a way to adjust your job so it works for your life, or start looking for a new job.  

I've found that even knowing I could leave a job makes me happier where I am. Rough patches feel manageable when I treat them as temporary: either things will improve (100% track record in-house so far) or they won't, and I'll go find something else to do with my time and energy. The knowledge that no job gets to make my life bad in the long run is freeing and helps me stay happy even when things are tough.

When President Kennedy visited NASA in 1962, he asked a janitor what he did there. "I'm putting a man on the moon," the man supposedly responded.

Nobody puts that on a legal department OKR. But the principle holds. The redline and the privacy policy are in service of something larger: a business you're helping to build and protect. That's important and valuable.

And if your company's mission doesn't light you up, find meaning in the craft. Doing excellent work consistently is its own kind of purpose, and it's more sustainable than waiting for your industry to become inspiring.

The happiest lawyers I know all view themselves as more than just lawyers. When defining themselves, they rely heavily on other aspects of their identity as parents, siblings and friends, artists, athletes and explorers. 

These lawyers still find joy in their work and take pride in doing it well. But “lawyer” is just one part of who they are. I’ve written about this before on LinkedIn (here), and the discussion in the comment section is worth a read.

This approach makes you more resilient, when things don’t go perfectly at work.  Plus, it makes aligning your time and energy with your actual priorities more straightforward than if you think of yourself as primarily and almost exclusively a lawyer.

Yes, really. The science is solid, the time commitment is minimal, and you don't need a fancy app or a journal to make it work. Noticing what's good, regularly and intentionally, changes how you experience your day.

I wrote a whole issue on one simple version of this practice. If you missed it, you can read it here.

Lawyers wear busy like a badge of honor. I get it. Busyness signals that you're needed, contributing, indispensable.

But busyness is also one of the most effective ways to avoid asking yourself harder questions. Like whether what's filling your calendar is actually the most effective use of your time at work, and whether it’s even what you want to be doing with your life. Being busy and being fulfilled are not the same thing, and it's surprisingly easy to spend years confusing the two.

Sure, you’ll have busy times (we all do). But make sure that you don’t confuse being busy with making an impact.

This one sounds almost too simple, but it's real. Many lawyers have so internalized the idea that work is supposed to be hard and serious that they feel vaguely guilty when they enjoy it. Letting yourself actually like what you do is underrated.

The GC title. The Fortune 500 logo. The salary that clears a certain number. These are terrific goals if they’re actually yours. The problem is that a lot of lawyers are chasing benchmarks they inherited from someone else and never stopped to question.

What does a great career look like to you, specifically, right now? Start there. Everything else is noise.

I wrote a book on this exact topic with 22 other women lawyers. You can get it here.

When people comment that I seem happy at work, luck definitely deserves some credit. I've landed in good places with good people, and I don't take that for granted. But I'd also push back on the idea that I’m happy because my job is easy—it's actually pretty hard, and some stretches have been really hard.

What I think makes the difference is the work on this list. Some of it took years to figure out. Some of it I'm still figuring out. But every lawyer I know who genuinely loves their career has made the same basic decision: that being happy at work is worth being intentional about. It turns out that decision is most of the battle.